Everyday Deklan's story replays itself in my mind.
Every time it plays out a different way. Maybe if I'd stalled the doctors....Maybe if I'd demanded the antibiotics to be stopped sooner....If I'd held him more...How/what could I have changed so that he would have lived. I should have been stronger, smarter, better.
There is no doubt in my mind that
Deklan could have been healed. Sometimes I think that it is the faith I had that makes it harder on me. It was the doctors' decision to take away the support that was keeping him alive. I wasn't strong enough at that time to fight their decision. Or even to realize I had the right to oppose it. If he had been taken by God, just slipped away unexpectedly, maybe I would have been more at peace with it. Ultimately I know that The Lord is stronger, and if
Deklan was meant to live he would have, without life support. Part of me was expecting a miracle in that moment.
I hated the doctors. I hated their
attitudes. I questioned everything. Maybe
Deklan's healing had to be bigger than what they could have done for him. Maybe healing is not the way my mortal mind views it. Now he is safe from everything the doctors were doing to him. Everything I hated them for. He has been saved from pain and sorrow. He has been saved! Healed!
Not in the way we define healing though. It makes me sad that I couldn't heal him. I couldn't make him better. Mainly I feel like I was not enough for him. He needed more than I
could do, than I could give. More than any person could do or give. The rational side of me knows that there was nothing more I could have done. I mean I had 6 doctors collectively telling me he wasn't going to make it. But my heart tells me that a mother's love can heal anything. My heart that is filled with regret...
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